Look, I know it’s possible to try to be social, to learn how, maybe even become fluent in it, but it’s always gonna be a second language. It’ll never come naturally. I have gotten better at it over the years, but I’m still constantly warring with my anxiety and insecurities that keep me from meeting new people and just generally talking to someone. It’s not easy, and it definitely takes more that “just trying.”
And to people who say stuff like that, I appreciate the sentiment, I do, but understand that it’s just not. that. simple.